Can Counseling Help Your Relationship? (OLD FORMAT)

You are fantasizing about having an affair.

You are spending more and more time with a friend of the opposite sex who you feel understands you better than your mate (even if your intentions are pure).

You and/or your mate seem to be avoiding the other.

When you look at your mate, you get a sinking feeling in your gut, or become angry/irritable for no reason.

My mate and I keep having the same arguments over and over

I often feel picked on by my mate

I often feel disappointed/let down by my mate

I wonder if my spouse really loves me

I feel that my mate is a controlling person

I think our arguments get out of control

I wonder if I married the right person

I intentionally avoid spending time with my mate

I feel like my mate doesn't understand me

I often think negatively about my mate