Sustainable Marriage Quiz

Researchers refer to marriages that allow the couple to grow as persons as "sustainable" both because they sustain the couple's sense of personal development and growth and such marriages tend to be more stable and rewarding over time.   How much do you feel your marriage challenges you to be the best version of yourself?  Take this quiz based on research by Dr. Gary Levandowski of Monmouth University.

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How much does being with your partner result in your having new experiences?

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When you are with your partner, do you feel a greater awareness of things because of him or her?

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How much does your partner increase your ability to accomplish new things?

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How much does your partner help to expand your sense of the kind of person you are?

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How much do you see your partner as a way to expand your own capabilities?

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How much do your partner's strengths as a person (skills, abilities, etc.) compensate for some of your own weaknesses as a person?

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How much do you feel that you have a larger perspective on things because of your partner?

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How much has being with your partner resulted in your learning new things?

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How much has knowing your partner made you a better person?

10. 
How much does your partner increase your knowledge?

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Welcome to your Marital Connection Quiz

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If my spouse says (s)he will do something for me, I can count on her/him to do it.

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I feel that my spouse looks for ways to make my life easier or more pleasant.

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I look for ways to make my spouse's life easier or more pleasant.

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I am diligent about following through on promises I make to my spouse.

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I am happy with the amount and type of affection my spouse and I share.

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I feel physically desirous of my spouse.

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Our sexual relationship is intimate and fulfilling.

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With regard to physical affection, my spouse and I are well matched.

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I can count on my spouse to listen attentively when I am sharing my feelings & needs.

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I feel comfortable sharing deeper feelings and needs with my spouse.

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I am happy when my spouse shares his/her feelings and needs with me.

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I actively encourage my spouse to share his/her feelings and needs with me.

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My spouse and I actively like to try out new things together.

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If I am excited about doing something new, I can count on my spouse to share it with me.

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My spouse and I actively enjoy learning new things together.

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I feel grateful for the person I am becoming because of my spouse's influence in my life.

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I would consider my spouse to be my best friend.

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I value my spouse’s thoughts and opinions even when we don’t agree.

19. 
My spouse and I intentionally spend time together on a daily/weekly basis.

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I know my spouse has my best interest in mind.

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